Stop hunting for your other half.
What?!
That probably does sound completely contradictory to anything you've heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you are not basically an entire person in the first instance. It indicates, that you really do not have everything inside you already that you need to live a happy life. Isn't life about really finding ourselves and who we are deep within?
Rather, look for the person who will be your teammate. Look for someone who really challenges you to be something bigger than you've ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they require support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and disappear. Even the great relationships that stand the test of time eventually end and you need to go on living your life. The individual that is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you really wouldn't be shattered to pieces when they are gone. So be a whole person who can love another totally. Be the best version you can be for yourself and allow for another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find someone who wants to do the same, then you can meet together as two whole individuals who appreciate and treasure each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are unfinished without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to heavy amounts of depth and the power to reach your actual potential?
Find your teammate, you will be way better off. These relationships bloom.
What?!
That probably does sound completely contradictory to anything you've heard before, but searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you are not basically an entire person in the first instance. It indicates, that you really do not have everything inside you already that you need to live a happy life. Isn't life about really finding ourselves and who we are deep within?
Rather, look for the person who will be your teammate. Look for someone who really challenges you to be something bigger than you've ever been before. Look for someone who believes in you and your vision, who is there for you when times get tough and who comes to you when they require support as well. Look for someone who will walk right by your side...not your missing piece.
Because in life, things always appear and disappear. Even the great relationships that stand the test of time eventually end and you need to go on living your life. The individual that is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you really wouldn't be shattered to pieces when they are gone. So be a whole person who can love another totally. Be the best version you can be for yourself and allow for another to dream with you on the way to change the world.
When you can work on yourself in life and find someone who wants to do the same, then you can meet together as two whole individuals who appreciate and treasure each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are unfinished without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to heavy amounts of depth and the power to reach your actual potential?
Find your teammate, you will be way better off. These relationships bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Time to move on from an old relationship, start working on yourself, and diving into what life has to offer? Dig into these quotes about moving on for some great perspective.
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